ANDY ABBOTT Posted January 29, 2020 Share Posted January 29, 2020 Ahhhh sad new Ian. Sending best wishes, and hopefully things will get better soon. All the best mate 👍 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nivlek2525 Posted January 29, 2020 Share Posted January 29, 2020 Ian, sorry to hear about the set back. It must be very distressing but he sounds like he's in the right hands who have a plan to get him back on track. Easy to say but try to stay positive. All the best and keep us updated when you feel you can. Kelvin. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H-400 Posted January 29, 2020 Share Posted January 29, 2020 Sorry to read about your Son's condition. Takes a lot of courage to come out with this situation. Trust the medical staff and their Doctors, sometimes you have to deal with decicions You and your Wife don't like. And if your patience has ended take a step back and look to your wife: The love of a mother to her child stays untouchable. You are not alone, Herman 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1200bandit Posted January 29, 2020 Share Posted January 29, 2020 Hang in there lan ,he in the best place for him and your family I know is not the same, but have just got the mum in law into a care home, and that was bad. Hop things get better for everyone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
®evo03 Posted January 29, 2020 Share Posted January 29, 2020 Ian, wish your family and son all the best for the future and hope things stabilise for you all, no matter how bad things get, think of the good times, and the goodtimes to be had in the future. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monaco Blue Posted January 29, 2020 Share Posted January 29, 2020 Very sad news, Ian. Was shocked after reading the latest update. Hopefully, all will get resolved in due course. Must be a hell of a strain for everyone involved. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trooker Posted January 29, 2020 Share Posted January 29, 2020 Sorry to read this Ian, some journey's are hard to navigate, may you have patience and wisdom for the tough days and be able to have fantastic fun on the good ones. Alex 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robah Posted January 30, 2020 Share Posted January 30, 2020 Words can't describe my heartfelt sorrow for the predicament and pain you and your family are going through at the present time. I hadn't read your posts for some time, as I was hoping to sit down and take a long read for inspiration to continue my minor work, in comparison to yours. It is only that I took a look at the last page to understand your plight and distress. Medical (none surgery) procedures and understandings of mental health has come on leaps and bounds since I was diagnosed with a similar illness back in 1994. I know you will have your hands full for the foreseeable future with plenty of ups and downs along the way. I know your son will have to come to terms with this illness, and as long as you are there to listen and understand him, which I know you, will then it will make his recovery and treatment that much easier. I wish I had the knowledge and parenting that was often overlooked back when my diagnoses was realised, I would have recovered a lot earlier and be further down the full recovery road. I suppose that mental health was still a Taboo back then, and for me it is still hard to relate to and express, as I don't seek attention for it, I just prefer progression. I still have issues locked away in small boxes in the back of my mind that open from time to time, but the coping mechanism's that the medical professions have taught me have made it easier for me to ride the waves of emotion over the years, to see the waters are slowly getting calmer. I will never rid myself of the illness, but I can take a lot more control of the situations. Try to ensure your son is part and partial to all ongoing procedure and treatment as this will help his future self and you and your family as well. All the beat and good luck with your families future health, hoping for a brighter future Rob 5 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanMc Posted February 4, 2020 Author Share Posted February 4, 2020 Thank you all, you wonderful people xx 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanMc Posted February 29, 2020 Author Share Posted February 29, 2020 Dear All, I hope that you are all keeping well and enjoying your wonderful cars, in whatever capacity. This is a little update for you on things here at the moment: 1) Our Son reached the end of his Section 2 last Saturday and we were able to bring him back home with us after a scheduled visit. At that time, he already seemed better than when he had been home previously for 2 weeks, which of course was great to see. He has now had a firm diagnosis of Bipolar, which is being medicated correctly and certainly this has contributed to his wellbeing. Naturally we are watching and listening very closely - especially after the nightmare we experienced a month ago, when he suffered his traumatic relapse. Its an anxious time for us all to be honest, but the signs are positive and therefore we are keen to reinforce this whenever and wherever we can. 2) Our Daughter is heavily pregnant and her due date was yesterday - so we are standing by our phones waiting for news on that. This will be our first Grandchild, which will bring some much needed cheer to the family. We already know its a Girl by the way, so we are looking forward to having a cuddle with her soon. 3) Some more bad news though... Our Daughters partners Mum has been taken to hospital this morning. When we spoke to her last night it was clear that she 'didn't sound right'. With our recent 'experiences' with our Son, we kind of know the signs now and sure enough she is being taken to A&E herself for a mental assessment... You just never know whats just around the corner do you?! 4) I am pleased to report that I have had a couple of hours on the Cav over the last couple of weeks and: - overhauled and refitted a pair front brake calipers. You might recall that I struggled with getting the bleed nipples to seal ages ago. This has been playing on my mind ever since and when a used pair came up for sale, I knew I had to get the job done 100%, so bought them. Below are some photos. - This morning I have taken the passenger seat backrest front and back cover pieces to a local upholsterer for the final stitching together. I had tried twice with my table top sewing machine, but it just wasn't up to it. He said that it would only cost £10, so no brainer as they say! When I get that back next weekend I can fit the cover and put the passenger seat back together and fit in in the car. It will be nice to see one seat fitted and then I can start on the drivers side front. With everything that has happened over the last 3 months, I wont be as 'enthusiastic' with my car work as before, it has been proven that many things are more important I am afraid. I still love to tinker of course, but this whole period of our lives has brought things into sharp focus. Photos of the calipers: a) The old/original ones. Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. b)The refurbished ones at various stages Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. As everyone knows, Red calipers always stop the car better of course Take car everyone, it good to be kind of back - fingers crossed it stays that way. 14 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessopia74 Posted February 29, 2020 Share Posted February 29, 2020 Great to gear the positive news mate👍 doing what you can as and when should be for a treat for your wellbeing, just remember not to stop looking after yourselves, easy when you have so much going on with life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1200bandit Posted February 29, 2020 Share Posted February 29, 2020 Glad to see you are posting again , and doing a bit on the cav sometimes you have to have to some time for yourself ( even if it’s makes you guilty) The mum in law is now in a care home ( aka hotel) as she does not to be in a care home All the best for you and the family 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoobby Posted February 29, 2020 Share Posted February 29, 2020 Hi Ian did read about your son to be honest didn't know what to say as the wife and myself have been through this with my father-in-law forgot the amount of times the police where called in full body armour and visits to the secure wing a truly lovely person turning so suddenly into something so dark at the same time his wife was diabetic and suffering from Alzheimer's a truly lethal mix she would wonder off and again would have to call the police and go look for her we endured six years of stress and anxiety every time the phone or doorbell rang.how it all ended if I tell you I get the picture in my head from airplane with Ted striker tell passengers about his sad story so to preserve the amount of members we have I will not tell. I know what you have all been going through all I can say is in time things WILL get better you just have to all stay strong and ride life's storms.nice to see you working on the cav again and hope you can all find calm waters. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisb Posted February 29, 2020 Share Posted February 29, 2020 Hi Ian. So sorry to read the news regarding your son although by the sounds of todays post he is getting on with his recovery, First grandchild is an amazing thing, i now have 7 but the first one always tuggs at the heart strings in a special kind of way. I really hope things get better with your mother in law, believe me i know, we have had my wifes mother in a specialist care home for 8.5 years now with severe dementia. Im really glad you found a little time to tinker on the cav in the garage, going through tough times you really need a bit of space now and again to resume a little normality in life and keep the mind occupied in a different way. My wife and i sincerely offer our best wishes and hope things normalise for you in the not too distant future. Very best regards, Chris and Debbie Burt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanMc Posted February 29, 2020 Author Share Posted February 29, 2020 6 hours ago, Jessopia74 said: Great to gear the positive news mate👍 doing what you can as and when should be for a treat for your wellbeing, just remember not to stop looking after yourselves, easy when you have so much going on with life. Cheers Jess, much appreciated mate 👍 3 hours ago, 1200bandit said: Glad to see you are posting again , and doing a bit on the cav sometimes you have to have to some time for yourself ( even if it’s makes you guilty) The mum in law is now in a care home ( aka hotel) as she does not to be in a care home All the best for you and the family Thanks Wayne, best wishes back to you and your Mother in Law too matey x 3 hours ago, hoobby said: Hi Ian did read about your son to be honest didn't know what to say as the wife and myself have been through this with my father-in-law forgot the amount of times the police where called in full body armour and visits to the secure wing a truly lovely person turning so suddenly into something so dark at the same time his wife was diabetic and suffering from Alzheimer's a truly lethal mix she would wonder off and again would have to call the police and go look for her we endured six years of stress and anxiety every time the phone or doorbell rang.how it all ended if I tell you I get the picture in my head from airplane with Ted striker tell passengers about his sad story so to preserve the amount of members we have I will not tell. I know what you have all been going through all I can say is in time things WILL get better you just have to all stay strong and ride life's storms.nice to see you working on the cav again and hope you can all find calm waters. Hi Graeme - wow mate, that’s sounds desperately tough, we feel for you. Thanks for your kind words 👍👍 x 2 hours ago, chrisb said: Hi Ian. So sorry to read the news regarding your son although by the sounds of todays post he is getting on with his recovery, First grandchild is an amazing thing, i now have 7 but the first one always tuggs at the heart strings in a special kind of way. I really hope things get better with your mother in law, believe me i know, we have had my wifes mother in a specialist care home for 8.5 years now with severe dementia. Im really glad you found a little time to tinker on the cav in the garage, going through tough times you really need a bit of space now and again to resume a little normality in life and keep the mind occupied in a different way. My wife and i sincerely offer our best wishes and hope things normalise for you in the not too distant future. Very best regards, Chris and Debbie Burt. Thanks also to you and Debbie, Chris - it is really heartening to hear that we have the support from all you wonderful people 👍 x 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanMc Posted March 1, 2020 Author Share Posted March 1, 2020 She’s here! - We are now officially Grandparents. She arrived at 18:58 this evening 👍👍 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Limeysore Posted March 2, 2020 Share Posted March 2, 2020 Fantastic news, congratulations to you all. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessopia74 Posted March 2, 2020 Share Posted March 2, 2020 Congrats to you and your Daughter Ian, really great news 🍻 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanMc Posted March 2, 2020 Author Share Posted March 2, 2020 Thanks everyone. Unbelievably, its also my Birthday today - so we are looking to our Daughter and her partner bringing the baby home this evening and all having a lovely evening together. Its nice to have some good news to celebrate xx 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H-400 Posted March 2, 2020 Share Posted March 2, 2020 Great news, congratulations and enjoy her! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny D114BCW Posted March 2, 2020 Share Posted March 2, 2020 Congratulations and here is hoping the rest of the issues fade away and they too become good! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1200bandit Posted March 2, 2020 Share Posted March 2, 2020 Congrats on your new member of the family My granddaughter was born on the same day as my daughter you will spoil her rotten, enjoy the time together 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanMc Posted March 15, 2020 Author Share Posted March 15, 2020 Dear All, I hope that you are all keeping well. Over the last few days I have got a little bit done on the old girl. As mentioned above, the final 'big stitch' of both sections (front and back) of the passenger side seat back was done by a local upholstery company. They did a good job and were quite kind about my completely amateurish work on the rest of it Once I got that home I was able to reassemble the whole seat, and then this afternoon I have got it back in the car. My score for this job is 5/10 overall - its just all OK, but I feel that I could have done better really. Everything still needs a good smack about to get the piping all straight and so on - or perhaps that wont change anything, I don't really know to be honest... But I did learn a lot doing it and that should stand me in good stead with the drivers side and the rear seat. I do like the overall effect though when you look across from the drivers side to see the new seat covers against the door card. Anyway, you guys are the experts - I will let you judge for yourselves. Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. Project images are available to Club Members Only, Click to become an OMOC Member. Take care everyone, enjoy your cars 9 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRealExile Posted March 15, 2020 Share Posted March 15, 2020 Looks great Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanMc Posted March 15, 2020 Author Share Posted March 15, 2020 35 minutes ago, TheRealExile said: Looks great Thanks Terry, much appreciated matey 👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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